Sex today is disconnected. It is disconnected because it is aligned with masculine principles of acquisition and achievement. Sexuality is fundamentally feminine, its nature is not marked by a drive for achievement but by connectivity and liberation.
There is nothing wrong with female sexual desire, even though society tends to pathologize women as having low desire. What is wrong is that sex today is not desirable. And women have lost the ability to fake it. You will know sex based on feminine principles because it will lead to clarity, a brightness, an alert relaxation. It will be intimate, connected, and it will reveal parts of yourself you did not previously know. You will experience depth and richness instead of experiencing a habituated numbness you call stress relief.
As we navigate the complex world of intimacy and connection, it’s essential to acknowledge the unique aspects of women’s sexuality. In a society that often prioritizes masculine ideals of conquest and accomplishment, the true essence of sexual liberation can become overshadowed. Women’s sexuality is inherently feminine, rooted not in the pursuit of goals but in the joy of experience and the depth of connection.
The misconception that female sexual desire is somehow flawed or insufficient is a disservice to both men and women. The reality is not that women lack desire but rather that the current narrative around sex fails to kindle that desire authentically. Authentic female sexuality cannot be feigned—it thrives in an environment where intimacy is genuine, connections are deep, and personal discovery is celebrated.
When sexuality is approached through a feminine lens, the experience transforms. It becomes a source of clarity and luminosity, fostering a state of relaxed awareness. This form of intimacy is not about escaping stress through routine but about enriching one’s life and uncovering new facets of oneself. It’s about seeing and embracing the beauty within, allowing for growth and a deeper understanding of one’s desires and pleasures.
For women eager to explore and embrace their sexuality, the path is rejecting societal norms that do not resonate with their inner truth. It’s about creating spaces where sexuality is synonymous with enjoyment and connection, where each moment is an opportunity to learn and expand in profound and unexpected ways.
