Part III: The Art of Deep Listening- Don't Use

Nicole Daedone and Eli Block explore the subtle mechanics of connection, moving beyond surface advice like “just listen” or “speak up.” They unpack what it actually takes to be present with another person—how true listening involves both active engagement and a kind of quiet, receptive awareness. The conversation touches on the balance between doing and being in relationship, the way gender roles can shape how we connect, and the importance of moving past relationship rules into something more alive and real. Drawing from lived experience and real-time awareness, they reveal how even the moments of tension or silence can become openings for deeper intimacy, if we’re willing to meet what’s actually there.

About the Instructors

Eli Block
Eli Block has been practicing Orgasmic Meditation for 17 years and teaching it for most of that time. He grew up with parents deeply involved in the San Francisco Zen Center and has been meditating since early childhood. As lead instructor of the men’s program at The Eros Platform, he’s spent years figuring out how to make Eros and OM land for the widest possible range of people, operating on the belief that what’s possible for one is possible for all. He’s also appeared on numerous podcasts, served as a director at OneTaste in Boulder, San Francisco, New York, and Los Angeles, and outside of OM he’s a writer, music lover, former Apple Genius, and a guy who was genuinely not bad at lacrosse.
Nicole Daedone
Nicole is an author, activist and creator; 20 years ago she created Orgasmic Meditation which has now been studied by top research universities in the country and endorsed by some of the biggest names in Hollywood, she co-founded OneTaste, a company that at its peak had 35,000 customers around the world coming to its workshops to learn about the philosophy she calls Eros. She also created the Prison Monastery, a novel approach to incarceration which was adopted at a Level 4 prison in California. All before she herself was canceled in a big way.