Part III: The Art of Deep Listening- Don't Use

Nicole Daedone and Eli Block explore the subtle mechanics of connection, moving beyond surface advice like “just listen” or “speak up.” They unpack what it actually takes to be present with another person—how true listening involves both active engagement and a kind of quiet, receptive awareness. The conversation touches on the balance between doing and being in relationship, the way gender roles can shape how we connect, and the importance of moving past relationship rules into something more alive and real. Drawing from lived experience and real-time awareness, they reveal how even the moments of tension or silence can become openings for deeper intimacy, if we’re willing to meet what’s actually there.

About the Instructors

Eli Block
Eli Block is a teacher and trainer of the Eros Philosophy and OM content on The Eros Platform and at The Eros Monastery. Born to a psychologist and a Zen Buddhist, he has meditated since childhood. As a lead instructor of the men's program, he is passionate about realigning our understanding of gender, sexuality, and orgasm with nature. His mission is to help people connect more deeply with their authentic selves and experience greater intimacy, connection, and aliveness.
Nicole Daedone
Nicole is an author, activist and creator; 20 years ago she created Orgasmic Meditation which has now been studied by top research universities in the country and endorsed by some of the biggest names in Hollywood, she co-founded OneTaste, a company that at its peak had 35,000 customers around the world coming to its workshops to learn about the philosophy she calls Eros. She also created the Prison Monastery, a novel approach to incarceration which was adopted at a Level 4 prison in California. All before she herself was canceled in a big way.