Relationship by Design

Would you like to better understand your own Tumescence (a constriction of energy manifesting as suffering? Tumescence is undigested material which blocks our creativity. It arises when we consciously or unconsciously redirect Erotic energy away from its natural course. It feels like inflammation or a buildup of pressure. Many “problems” we experience in life, physical and emotional, are due to tumescence. We can learn to convert tumescence and use the energy for creativity.

Do you find a desire to connect with others, but sometimes feel you get in your own way? I find there’s a great need for people to understand how they withdraw or disrupt a relationship when what they desire is connection. In this class we will look at how you withdraw, provoke, and obscure situations preventing the very connection you desired. 

Using the Tumescence and Relationship Sutras combined with other tools: Relationship Belief Work, Relationship Research, Desire Contract, and Healing Boundaries; we will design the relationship you desire. 

Doing the hard work to overcome ongoing challenges in the relationship takes bravery. We will discuss past hurts, and resentments, identify goals, set agreements and design a clear path for you and your relationship.

About the Instructor

Charity Danker
Charity’s moto is Sex is beautiful, love thy self. She has been practicing OM for 6 years. Working as certified sex therapist for 15 years, and certified orgasmic meditation life coach and trainer for 5. She is passionate about positive sex and relationship education and empowering individuals to love themselves and live authentically. When we know, love and take responsibility for one self, we can then have honest, sacred connection with another. The most fulfilling part of the day is witnessing clients reach greater happiness and satisfaction with themselves and/or in their relationships.