Every woman can smell another woman's signature on a person. If they have been intimate with a woman in the essential world, they cannot escape without her scent on them. When a woman's partner engages at the essential level with someone else, she will sense it.
Those who are more masculine operate by legalism and so, if no physical contact occurred, the more feminine partner will look as if she is hysterical; men often call a woman "crazy" when she is simply tuned in at the level of essence.
In the same way dogs leave a scent to assert dominance, so do women. It is why a woman can drive other women crazy and look innocent. She is playing against the other women in the essential world, no matter how innocent she looks on the surface. This is where war between women occurs.
A woman with insecurity in the physical world places an energetic claim on every man she encounters, even though she doesn't actually want him. She is not a lot of fun to play with. She tends to make men dumb by keeping the focus on her, without putting in the work to educate him in the interior world and how it operates.
There are, however, other women who play with a man, in essence, as sisters. Rather than put her signature on him, she puts her signature addition to him. She makes him smarter. He will be more skilled in his noticing, care, nuance, or attention because of what this sister offers.
This woman may even meet a married man in the essence room in order to offer her particular gift of education in how to be in this interior world, as a gift to her sister.
The truth of the essential world is that there is no way to do it on our own. We cannot uncover our own power. It is only found in connection with others. The competition and back-biting that exists among women shifts to contribution out of necessity, in order to stay in this world.
From here, it is fun to create together—to make everything in every woman's life better by sharing the load. This is how the creative force works.
