When woman evolves her true power, everyone will rejoice. There is never a fight against true power. As long as there is a fight, or a struggle, she is in the training ground of developing power. Power gives power. It does not fight against anything. Power generously defines new and more effective ways of functioning, because power recognizes the "us" of all things. As long as woman is fighting for power, it is clear she is not ready for the rights of power.
She says she is not heard and yet she does not speak, and when she does, she speaks in a language incomprehensible to men, saying it is their responsibility to learn it. In actuality, responsibility is being willing to ensure the listener can understand us. She must either speak in their language or educate them in hers.
She needs to understand that modern Western masculine culture is trained that emotionality, linguistic range, and expression are childlike, and the wearing of masculine linguistics when they are not her own is not trusted.
To be a woman who can be heard, then, is to find her feminine power, own her language, and train others how to hear it. She can complain about the labor of this, but this is the labor of real love. Love with power. Love that is determined to build connection because that is what true power does. There is no room for resentment, no "but they don't get it." Who did she think was here to teach them?
To say it is the irresponsibility to learn her language, to see her power, and to get angry when they don't is childlike. It is her responsibility to demonstrate her power in such a way that it is undeniable—first to herself and then to the world. This is the journey of the marginalized: figuring out how to be seen and heard in an incontrovertible way, in order to bring forth what they have to offer, is the path of initiation.
The frustration is in the process of learning, yet, she still cannot blame someone who does not understand what she is here to teach. What are the jewels she carries? What is the wisdom of woman? If every woman were fully in her power, how would the world be different? What is missing without woman's voice and vision being woven into the conversation?
Figuring out how she communicates this has us figure out how to weave it into the world. She is not getting anything from man. To be honest, he does not have much—a broken world where he is being circled by a lot of angry people who want to tear down the system while providing no alternative suggestion. She wants to bring something to man. She wants to bring what will heal, grow, and evolve the world, including man himself. A woman's power can bring this.
Man produces—as simple as man produces sperm. But woman creates; she creates life. When woman accepts the awesome nature of this reality, when she truly takes it in not as a weapon, not as a means of saying, "See!" but when she rests inside of that power, she will likely see man relieved and rejoicing, because this is the weight of the truth that—in her denial of it—he has had to hold.
Man is at his best when he is producing for. When woman in her power is muse, man is genius; he rises to her art. When she is absent, he builds without guidance. Creativity is missing. We end up with cold production, factories, and cement. And yet, she blames him for her absence, her unwillingness to rise to the level of woman that could and would inspire greatness in him.
She whines, yells, or complains because things are not as they could be; she flatters, placates, or submits when she wants something. She lives looking only at what she can get and what she lacks.
This is not a woman in her power. Woman in her power is deeply seated in what she can bring forth. But she must bring it forth from the feminine plane, and the feminine plane is not the spiritual but the Erotic. Woman in the spiritual plane is infantilized, virginalized, untouched by life or power. This woman will always be—at best—a rib in man, but she will never be sovereign. She will never be a companion. She will never be a counter-pole that balances life. She will be a possession, not an inspiration. To meet and match him as friend, as the creative force he produces for and from, she must inhabit her own domain, and then bring it forth as the full complement.
And yet, woman has agreed to do everything in her power to suspend or reverse puberty. She is determined to maintain a child's hairless body, lacking in adult curves. To be small, if not invisible. To pride herself on youthfulness. Age speaks to experience and experience is the purview of adults. She aims to maintain innocence.
She hides and yet complains about invisibility. She complains that visibility gets "unwanted" attention. She refuses to learn both to direct the power of her call and to receive when reception is power.
