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A Congruent Mind Seeks to Lose Well
The Natural Mind Welcomes Congruent Opposition As A Complement That Balances, Not Threatens.
Erotic Ethics
The Dance Of Unconditionality: Mastering Dynamic Energy Flow Through Mindful Acceptance And Connected Practice.
Identity Is the Homeostasis Of the Mind
Buy The Book Here (https://a.co/d/7ahJEnA) Inside of us lies the raw, unadulterated pulse of desire. Outside lies the world of phenomena. Our life is the mutually influencing conversation that happens between these two poles. — Waves of desire f...
Tumescence From Withdrawn Consciousness
Buy The Book Here (https://a.co/d/7ahJEnA) In tumescence, we dissociate from our stream of consciousness, thinking that is relaxation. We try to have an intermittent consciousness, taking our attention off the present moment when circumstances be...
Climax Consciousness
Buy The Book Here (https://a.co/d/7ahJEnA) More often than not, we do not confront tumescence. We allow it to build, we neglect it, and we assume it will go away. Or we try to starve the underlying desire until we’re weak enough that the tumescen...
Defining Tumescence
Buy The Book Here (https://a.co/d/7ahJEnA) Tumescence is felt like a swelling, a buildup of pressure caused by the body’s natural response to physical, mental, spiritual, and sexual arousal. — It is encoded with a message that it needs relief an...
Graciously Open and Surrender Your Rules
Buy The Book Here (https://a.co/d/7ahJEnA) The rules to any domain are the instructions for entering that domain. Only by following the rules can we enter the inner sanctum, know it, and have its beauty revealed. This is the reason we aim for opt...
Mechanics Of Tumescence
Buy The Book Here (https://a.co/d/7ahJEnA) Tumescence starts when undigested material in consciousness, extreme experiences, or repeated negative experiences accumulate and get stuck. When these pockets of undigested experiences (https://erosplat...
The Relentlessness Of the Spot
Buy The Book Here (https://a.co/d/7ahJEnA) The tumescent mind is the voice in the background always suggesting we chill out a bit, just do what we already know, stick with the familiar, and stay in our bubble. Resentment is the nourishment of the...
Evolution Is Erotic Morality
Evolution Is Erotic Morality: Incentivizing Beneficial Behaviors Through Pleasure, Not Punishment
Blowing Out on the Good
Buy The Book Here (https://a.co/d/7ahJEnA) Each time something good happens and a new experience enters, our identity must open wider in order to contain it. The tumescent mind will be keenly aware something fundamental in our being has shifted a...
The Truth Fulfills but Only the Truth
Buy The Book Here (https://a.co/d/7ahJEnA) The tides of our internal ecology are ever present, ready to roll something needed onto our shores or carry our surplus out to another. We cannot control the tides, but when we are powered we can choose ...
Tumescence Relies on Scarcity
Buy The Book Here (https://a.co/d/7ahJEnA) On our way back to the Erotic mind, tumescence will give us the impression we will need to endlessly shift conditions in order to penetrate it. The buildup of that un-potentiated energy sets us off on a ...
Threatened by Good
Buy The Book Here (https://a.co/d/7ahJEnA) When our identity—the face of the tumescent mind—is threatened by good, — it’s because something has occurred that goes radically against its conception of who the identity believes “we” are. — Good ca...
Perfectionism Takes Over the Tumescent Mind
Buy The Book Here (https://a.co/d/7ahJEnA) The tumescent mind takes us out of our deeper selves into a constant running narrative in our heads. As a result, the un-potentiated energy of tumescence moves from the purifying processes of the Erotic ...
When the Mind Contracts, Exhale
Buy The Book Here (https://a.co/d/7ahJEnA) To open in the face of a contraction that results from a negative charge—our having judged a sensation as “bad”—the instruction is to exhale. Contraction is the equivalent to the nervous system holding i...
Fullness Cushions Reactivity
Buy The Book Here (https://a.co/d/7ahJEnA) If we want something to change into its highest form, we must be with it and respond to its deepest requests. Those requests may or may not fit into our preferences. In OM, we open our repertoire for ene...