An erotically charged woman's exquisite sensitivity has imbued in her a standard of quality that is sublime. It is not that she will not, but that she cannot settle for anything less. She will not compromise in a world where so many will. She is willing to be misunderstood or overlooked in favor of existing and creating in lockstep with Eros itself.
She listens with absolute attention to its every directive and creates a life and experience from here, facing the grumbles of those who believe living an Erotic life is too work-intensive, who just want to hurry up and get the payoff. She knows that at the end of the day, material success is not as important as how well she listened to and executed the desires of Eros. What matters is that she recognizes there is something Eros desires in every moment, and she is willing to go to any length to get it.
Ultimately this uncompromising nature is a gift to those around her. She will not settle for anything less for herself or others. She will not settle for close enough. This is what keeps her sword sharp. This is what allows her to cut through mediocrity and show others the potential for the extraordinary.
The non-powered version of this uncompromising Erotic woman is the disempowered woman who merely has a list of consumptive demands that are never gratified—for without power, there is no gratification. This woman is known as high-maintenance.
Even when her demands are met, she's dissatisfied because she experiences a new level of disappointment: "Even this did not satisfy." She is often somewhat vague about what she wants and only knows she wants something now. Her tone may be bossy or demanding. Or it may be hesitant, performing the facade of low-maintenance but requiring tremendous maintenance for her not to fall into another sinkhole.
In Eros, high-maintenance and low-maintenance take on entirely different meanings. A low-maintenance woman is one who is already deeply gratified, yet asks much of the people around her as a means of creating together in a way that brings a deeper sense of gratification to all. She is willing to hold the bottom line on quality because she has the power to do so.
A high-maintenance woman is simply a woman who will not do the work to be happy. She may not ask anything of us, but emotionally, she is a lot of work. We consistently have to rearrange our feelings in her presence, even if she is seemingly serving us and taking care of us.
An uncompromising woman is a happy woman. She is a woman who has a sense of Erotic possession; she is confident in it, filled with it. The work we do for her feels as though it benefits us far more than it does her because she can give us what no amount of rest or relaxation could. She can give us a state of being that is so deeply gratified that we feel brought back to ourselves, to our essence, to being alive.
We discover that the woman who will not compromise her own needs will also not compromise others' needs. She demands excellence for those she loves. The woman who asks little of others also wants little for others. She has not expanded her capacity. It is not humble; it is small.
We want intricate, precise, delicate, sublime processes. We get to share in whatever it is we create together. But these results are a bonus. The process is each exquisite stroke; the result is simply an excuse to be together in beauty.